Windows Media Player cannot play this file because...

The purpose of any media player, is to play media, DVD,CD, MP3, etc, all on your computer, easily, quickly and error free.
So why are there so many problems and issues with windows media player?

Mrs frugal has a laptop, she uses it rarely, but on occasion she likes to surf the internet and listen to her music and watch a DVD if others in the house are busy with something.
Today, her latest work out DVD landed, so on goes the laptop, it had not been used for a while, so I logged onto windows updates for her and downloaded and installed more than 120 security and updates, so she was safe to browse the net.

Amongst those updates, was the update to install windows media player 11.

All complete, she restarted her computer and placed her DVD in the drive ready to watch and burn?
Then up comes the windows media player 11 error message: "Windows media player cannot play the DVD as there is a problem with your decoder, DVD drive and video card. Try downloading new drivers for your video card to resolve the fault" - How helpful... NOT!

Like many people, Mrs frugal is as likely to know how to do this, as she is likely to know how to milk a cow.
Her computer came over to me, along with various mild insults and stories of bad luck "always happening to me!"
Now windows is always stressing the importance of only running files from a trusted source and keep upto date with security.
So my first port of call was the microsoft website. After looking through various lists to "troubleshoot" problems with various versions of media player, none of which dealt with our problem, (why do they sell programs that are fundamentally flawed?) I reached for google.

Amongst the list of links to our problem, was a website that had exactly the same problem, listing updated codec files (suggesting this to Mrs frugal would have got me a smack in the chops) I verified the link before downloading the file... not good, it linked to another website of a dubious nature, so I gave up without downloading.

After 30 minutes of messing around reading rubbish and angrily shouting abuse at the microsoft website, I reached for a trusted and never failing alternative, VLC media player.
First rule, get a program from a trusted source, so downloads.com was visited and VLC was typed in their search bar.

It is an open source player, which is free to use, to date has been downloaded more than 19 MILLION times from the site.
Downloaded and installed in 3 minutes, Mrs frugal was happy as she could now watch her exercise DVD with ease and no messing about!
So good is the VLC player, I have linked it to this post and will put up a link in the sidebar and over at our LINKS section for you.

Windows media player failing to work is an example of why I like Rhod Gilbert's work so much, he simply asks the question, why does everything have to be so complicated?
A global company, microsoft,  employing vast numbers of staff and people who tells us all how good they are, yet their simple products fail when trying to do the basics is not good at all.

Migraines hurt!

At the age of 17, I was diagnosed as a migraine sufferer.
This meant that after a few serious headaches in the previous 3 or 4 years, I finally had an explanation about what was happening to me, each time I was knocked off my feet for three days at a time.
I had been putting it down to after effects of too many late nights or as a result of drinking alcohol, which I am still not overly keen on today.

Mother nature stopped me in my tracks (as it so often does when the human body is neglected) with a migraine so bad, I honestly thought I was having a heart attack and frightened me so much, I immediately stopped making excuses for them and sought help.
After having pins and needles in my tongue (I kid you not!) for about half an hour, moving to my lips, the pins and needles stopped. Five minutes later the fingers in one hand started to get pins and needles and then went numb as the pins and needles moved their way up my left arm.
Right upto my shoulder they went, then the pain vanished.
About two minutes later, I started getting spots in my vision and then the worst feeling in the world for me, a weird vision, where I could only see a narrow "tunnel" right ahead, everything to either side of me could not be seen out of the corners of my eyes.
This lasted about 20 minutes, swilling my face, etc, did nothing to relieve it, I just have to ride it out.
Then...... nothing!
The relief is great, but as I know now, it's a false dawn. Then I start going white as a sheet and feeling sick, after a bit of vomiting, as I start to settle down and stop throwing up, everything goes calm, then BANG!
Like an explosion in my head, a headache of such ferocity that the only place I can get any peace, is a pitch black room (or under the covers) and pray that I can forget about the pain just long enough to fall asleep.

I have on two occasions, had the worst symptom, speech that makes no sense, I know what I am trying to say, but it comes out all jumbled up and total jibberish (More so than normal thanks).

Symptoms that migraine sufferers have, vary, as do the occasions when they hit a person. Some have one once every couple of years, but it is a bad one. Others have them after certain foods or drinks, that act like a trigger. Some, like me, have them three or four times a year.

Luckily, a sympathetic doctor I have, spotted the signs straight away, tried several types of medicine, until we found one that worked for me (apparently, some pain killers will not work for some people?) so that now when the pins and needles or blurred vision starts, if I take tablets and go to bed and sleep for a few hours, it reduces the length of time I have it and I don't get most of the symptoms.
So imagine my complete horror, on Sunday when I was having a nice relaxing day off, when the symptoms started.
My one day off and I start with the dreaded migraine.

Tablets taken, I retreat to my bed. Hours later, very sore head, pain killers having little effect.
So bad is it, that through Monday and Tuesday the back of my head and neck/shoulders feel like they are broken.
After a visit to the doctors on Wednesday, I find that I have not one but two infections. One in the ear and one in my sinus' these have been giving me migraines of varying levels over the past four days!

So if you know someone who suffers with migraines, please do not ridicule them - as I used to do - they effect people in different ways and can be extreme. When a migraine strikes, there is not a thing you can do about it!

Stop debt collection phone calls and visits!

I was reading Average Joe's blog today and the question was asked about companies who you owe money to ringing you at work, on mobiles, etc.

The solution is quite simple:

Write to the company, politely, inform them that as from the date you write, all correspondance must be IN WRITING ONLY!

Under the Administration of Justice Act 1972 - telephone calls and doorstep visits by any company, who have been instructed in writing to cease them, are illegal.
A legal case is one that is against the law, and as such, should the company continue to call you on the telephone or visit your home, you have a legal case for walking into your local police station and bringing charges against them.

What money companies do not inform you about, is that to trade in their field, they require a consumer credit license, if they are found to be breaking the law, they can be deemed unfit to hold a consumer credit license and as such, be prevented from trading.

This includes debt collection agencies and high street banks and building societies!

Another benefit of only being contacted in writing, is that the companies tend to be careful what they say to you. If it is in wiriting, their advisors cannot flout the law and lead you up the garden path, also they have to keep accurate account notes. I have lost count of how many times that I have contacted a company and then found days later that nothing of what has been said or promised has been put on the customer's records.
Sometimes, I have found that the call has not even been recorded!

Anything in writing can be used before a magistrate in your defence (unless it has "without prejudice" written on the top), so it maybe a long winded process, but it can protect you.

Under the Administration of Justice Act 1972, phone calls and doorstep visits are considered to be "Harrassment of a would be debtor."
Send the company concerned a letter, by recorded delivery and after a week or so, all telephone calls and doorstep visits will stop.

Of course it won't sort out any of your problems, but it will make your life a little less stressful!
Good luck.

Tesco pricing - Action man figures

The new "armed forces" action man figure (they always were armed forces!) that were selling in Asda and Tesco before Christmas, for £15.00 (same price? How unusual... *monopoly* disguised as price matching - both equally over priced!) are now being sold at Tesco for £8.75 each.

"Helping customers to spend less" is the slogan that's plastered everywhere in store.

If they can sell the product at this price now and make a profit on it, it just shows what their profit margin was when the same stock was on sale for £15.00 in the run up to Christmas!

Good value, is only good value when the price to the customer reflects the cost of buying in the item to the seller.
Good value is not, what supermarket's want us to think, when their prices compare only to another supermarket!

Profit wise, "every little helps" should have Tesco put at the end of it!

Huggies value box size 3 - review

Huggies value box size 3 - review

We had problems with Huggies size 1 nappies in a multi pack, with leaking at the sides of the nappies. Several changes of clothes later it was apparent that it was not just the odd nappy, nor was it the way we were putting them on.

So when we picked up a box of size 3 huggies nappies, I was a bit sceptical, seeing as there are two types of size 3 huggies nappies comes in. Never the less we decided to try them.
They do in deed keep baby dry, but leakage is a major issue again.

Out of the 102 nappies in the box, we have used about 70 of them - more than 20 of these have leaked number 2s up the waist and out of the legs!
This has resulted in 20 changes of clothes - when the washing and changing is taken into account, any "value" disappears and it starts costing more money.

It is no good having a "super dry" nappy when baby has to be changed every hour or hour and a half, once the number 1 fills up any of the nappy it pushes it away from baby's body and any number 2s that follow go straight out the sides and waist, resulting in a full change of clothes for baby.
Imagine our frustration when we have changed baby 30 minutes before going out, only to find she has leaked all over her clothes!

We wouldn't recommend this product as it is not good "value" and does not fit baby securely when baby has had a number 1.
They do make another "size 3 huggies nappy" in a red box, so we may try them to see if they are any better, more than likely we will try a different brand as we have had problems with both size 1 and size 3 huggies nappies and no longer trust them.